What a day….
Ok, now that Thursday is ending I can use actual terms about what was going on. Gracie was at her well child visit and I was told to “toss the helmet” because it was totally unnecessary. Great news! Then the big slap: The Dr. looked at her cranial measurements and was concerned because she was measuring off the charts, and there was quite a big jump in percentage from her 4 month visit. Because of this, she was concerned that Gracie might have a condition called Hydrocephalus. That is a condition where there is too much fluid between the brain and the skull, and a condition that requires brain surgery and a shunt placement. To say I panicked is an understatement. To make things worse, this was Monday, and the ultrasound was scheduled for Thursday. Four of the LONGEST days of my life! I was scared of putting on hats and headbands, I was terrified she would tip over on the floor while playing, I was angry she had to wear those awful helmets for no reason which could have potentially put pressure on her little head that might be filled with fluid. I. was. a. mess. Four day long anxiety attack.
Four of the longest days of my life later:
Thursday:
Gracie had her cranial ultra sound (She needed to be admitted into the hospital for this and that sent me into an awful panic attack) and it went relatively well, aside from a screaming baby and a Mamma with a migraine. It was literally the same machine used for my sonograms during pregnancy. My heart used to leap when I saw that machine, but today it sank. Once the ultra sound was over, I asked when we would hear the results, and the tech said, “Well I can just tell you here.” This struck me as odd because I had read that techs are not allowed to diagnose or give their opinion of the diagnosis. I was desperate though and welcomed any news. She said “Well, it looks pretty good.” And that was that.
Pretty good? My husband and I discussed what that could mean the entire drive back home. Pretty good as in “not perfect” or pretty good as in “looks great”?
Having the ultrasound done was not the relief I thought it would be. It was a steppingstone closer to potentially starting a horrible journey that I did not want to take.
Hours passed and my anxiety was unbearable, so I called the Pediatrician’s office and asked if the Dr. would be calling me today. AKA “Please please tell me the results ASAP!” The woman very coldly told me “The scans are here and she will take a look, so, maybe.” And that was the conversation. I was even more of a mess. “Why hasn’t she called? Are they that bad? Is it lost? Does she have a soul??”
After being cheered on by my family members to call back and insist, (Please do not forget I avoid any and ALL conflict) I got back on the phone (4:11) and called.
Answering Machine. Sorry. Office closes at 4.
I died a little. Total and complete defeat. I can only take SO much anxiety and uncertainty in a week. (Please note: This is also the day we found out if we bought a house, my eldest is SUPER MEGA sick, and it is my husband’s birthday.)
4:30- My phone rings. It is the doctor.
GRACIE IS HEALTHY! THANK YOU LORD, SHE IS OK!!!
I don’t even know how to make this sentence any more beautiful than by simply stating the fact: She is HEALTHY!
No more helmet, no more PT, no more scans, no more cold metal head measuring clamps, no more specialist visits. Just my beautiful, lumpy, big headed, GORGEOUS ray of sunshine and an overwhelming amount of kisses.
My Gracie, she is healthy.
I guess this is where I end my blog. What a journey this has been. My blogs were more like pleas and prayers, so there is only one way to end it:
Amen.